{"id":5354,"date":"2026-06-06T19:52:05","date_gmt":"2026-06-06T19:52:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parrycharity.co.uk\/?p=5354"},"modified":"2026-06-07T16:55:27","modified_gmt":"2026-06-07T16:55:27","slug":"finding-joy-in-helping-others-theo-talks-with-bella","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parrycharity.co.uk\/index.php\/2026\/06\/06\/finding-joy-in-helping-others-theo-talks-with-bella\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Joy in Helping Others \u2013 Theo Talks with Bella"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T<\/mark>heophilus Allen, a sixth form student at The Downs School, Berkshire talks about the joint project to support the charity Swings and Smiles in Thatcham.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It started, as many meaningful things do, quite simply.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Back in 2024, a group of us came together through school to support a local charity called Swings and Smiles<\/a>. At first, it was just a series of fundraising events, planning, organising, persuading people to show up. But one evening in particular still lingers in my mind, a movie night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Picture it rows of young students, laughter echoing, that unmistakable buzz of people coming together for something bigger than themselves. It wasn\u2019t just about raising money. It was about energy, connection, and that shared sense of doing something good. Sitting there, watching it all unfold, I remember thinking how powerful collective kindness can be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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And for one volunteer, that evening was only the beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So how did it become something special for Bella?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bella didn\u2019t set out for volunteering to become part of her weekly routine. It found her quietly, through a family connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI learned about Swings and Smiles through a family friend,\u201d she told me. \u201cBut I never really got involved until Year 11. We raised money, and that inspired me to work with them directly.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What began as a school effort soon became something far more personal. There was something about the Swings and Smiles centre in Thatcham, the atmosphere, the people, the sense of purpose that stayed with her long after the fundraiser ended.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, she volunteers every week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How is it different?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask Bella what stands out most, and she doesn\u2019t hesitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u201cEverything at Swings is very positive everyone seems happy. The children have a good environment to relax in, and it really affects them in a positive way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s something special about places like this, spaces intentionally built around joy, care, and understanding. They don\u2019t just support the children who attend; they uplift everyone who walks through the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, it\u2019s not without its challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt can be difficult,\u201d she admits. \u201cThese kids have struggles but it\u2019s uplifting because every week, I\u2019ve played my part in helping them have fun.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And perhaps that\u2019s the heart of it: showing up, even for a short time, and making someone\u2019s day just a little brighter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How does contact with other children make it different?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Bella has gained from volunteering goes far beyond anything taught in a classroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s definitely made me more patient,\u201d she reflects. \u201cA lot of these children find it challenging to do something I take for granted, communicate with words. I\u2019ve learnt how to pay much more attention to body language.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a quieter kind of learning one that asks you to slow down, to notice, to truly listen. Not just to what\u2019s being said, but also to what isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In doing so, Bella has discovered something deeper: an empathy that adapts, reaches out, and meets people where they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why is team work important?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Behind every moment of joy at Swings and Smiles is a network of people working together with care and intention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAll the staff work together to make sure the children are safe,\u201d Bella says. \u201cEveryone looks out for each other. There\u2019s so much patience involved, and I\u2019ve learned so much.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not loud or showy it\u2019s thoughtful and kind a community which is built on care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What matters? What makes a difference?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Even though Bella is only at the start of her time volunteering, the impact is already clear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou can see that the children enjoy being with each other they are comfortable in this environment.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Comfort, a feeling of belonging where people know you, these are things we all need and places like Swings and Smiles quietly create this environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And sometimes, the most meaningful moments are also the simplest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI come home and just feel good,\u201d Bella says, laughing as she recalls one session spent listening to Bob the Builder on repeat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s easy to smile at that but it says everything. Joy doesn\u2019t have to be complicated to matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How does reaching out create a benefit for everybody?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I asked Bella what charity means to her, her answer was refreshingly honest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s going out of your way to help someone else. It would be easier not to do anything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s the truth of it, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kindness often asks for careful thought, for time, for making someone else feel important. It asks you to choose action when inaction would be simpler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who is my neighbour?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before we finished talking, Bella left me with one final thought:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEveryone looks after themselves these days. I think it would be better if everyone looked after each other.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a simple idea but perhaps it\u2019s exactly what we need more of in our communities.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Theophilus Allen, a sixth form student at The Downs School, Berkshire talks about the joint project to support the charity Swings and Smiles in Thatcham. It started, as many meaningful things do, quite simply. Back in 2024, a group of us came together through school to support a local charity called Swings and Smiles. 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